Have you ever wondered why we keep attracting the same kind of men similar to the ex similar to the next?? Sometimes it can be where you hang around, the way you carry yourself or the things you wear. Something’s keeps attracting the same guys to you and it maybe something you need to change or somewhere you need to stop going. If you want a change you need to make the change. Think about where you are in life at the moment. What are your goals? Maybe if we start focusing on bettering ourselves the guys we attract will be better. If we dress inappropriate we will attract inappropriate men.
Just something to think about if we respect ourselves a guy has to respect us. I was a victim of that always putting he’s needs first not respect myself as a woman allowing my emotions to allow me to degrade myself for “MAN”
Another thing we need to think about having respect for other people’s men. You may deep down be stubborn to the fact and I was too. But us as women are beautifully made and dressing inappropriately doesn’t help men not to think thoughts of lust or sexual desires. Yes men should be able to control them selves but shouldn’t we as we’ll by dressing like we respect our bodies and want to be thought of as a queen not a sexual trophy.
As we shouldn’t judge it is done that way if we dress a certain way we attract a certain man simple. If you wanna attract different you may need to dress different. We fornicate everyday and don’t even realise it doesn’t only mean physical sex, it can me lusting over someone, dressing inappropriately luring men knowingly etc. Saying your one way dressing another doesn’t work remember actions speak louder than words. This is something I have learnt about myself in the last few weeks making a change in the way I carry myself!!!
Word of the day
Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols. And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. (Revelation 2:20-22 KJV)