Many of us jump out of one relationship into the next. I mean look….. I’m just saying that time is a healer. We must give our bodies and most importantly our emotions time to get over the trauma. Yes I said it trauma. The body is a sensitive vessel. It’s like being knocked over by a bus getting up and being knocked over again. You are not allowing your emotions or your body to heal from the relationship. Imagine cutting your self and then you cut your self again in the same place. That wound is going to take even longer to heal now, as you have reinfected the old wound. I’m just saying if we allowed ourself to heal from Winston & Steve we would be much better partners in our next relationship. We would be able to discern the correct God given partner. We would be able to have a clearer view of what we need. We wouldn’t be going around hurting another brother cause we was hurt in our past relationships, accusing him of things he hasn’t even done yet. We wouldn’t be pushing men to other women. We put ourself in such unecessary predicaments, if only we seeked God for His will for our lives. There would be less pain and more stability. I mean we always have someone watching us and admiring us. No matter who you are what you have done there is always someone watching you. Be that good example that you would of wanted, as a young girl or young lady growing up.
I’m just saying the word says in Romans 8:28 “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose”
Ladies we all have a purpose and the main one is to be a wife and a mother. In some cases that isn’t the will of God for our lives, but that was the soul purpose of a woman. Gos said to Adam in garden of Eden it is not good for man to be alone. I will make you a help meet. And that He did. He didn’t make Adam 5 to 10 women He made Him one. So why have we adopted this habit of bouncing from relationship to relationship in order to satisfy a void that only God can fill. When we seem God we have favour, mercy and unfailing love. We learn through our process, we learn to trust and most of all obdiences. We must be obedient to our Father for He knows best. If you can see no good fruit in the relationship you are in let God and let God. Stop trying to right Mr wrong and when it doesn’t work out you carry that hurt and pain into another relationship to then drag down another brother into your past mess. Don’t think I haven’t been through the same predicament. I’m just trying to share the knowledge and peace that I got when I let go, let God and wait for my husband ti find me.
That brings me to another topic. Why are we out here searching for love. The scripture said He who finds a wife finds a good things and obtains favour from the Lord. We must prepare to be wives but not search for him. He will find you all in God’s time….